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The Family Well-Being: A Dyadic Analysis of Parent-Child Relationship Quality
Yohanes Budiarto*a, Fransisca Iriani Roesmala Dewib,
Rahmah Hastutic
[a]Faculty of Psychology, Universitas Tarumanagara, Jakarta, Indonesia
[b]Faculty of Psychology, Universitas Tarumanagara, Jakarta, Indonesia
[c]Faculty of Psychology, Universitas Tarumanagara, Jakarta, Indonesia
The family's emotional, psychological, and social well-being are influenced by how parent-child relations quality is perceived by each other, both of the child and father, as well as the child and the mother. This study focused on the dyadic analysis of parent-child quality relationships prediction on the emotional, psychological, and social well-being of the family members in Indonesia. The study involved 230 dyads comprised of fathers, mothers, and children who completed the Revised Parent-Child Interaction Questionnaire measuring the parent-child relationship quality and the Mental Health Continuum Short Form (MHC-SF) to measure family well-being. Adopting the actor–partner interdependence model (APIM) and structural equation modeling (SEM) as the statistics technique, the results showed that in general, no partner’s effect was found. To be specific, dyadic relations between father and child showed an actor’s effect influencing their well-being. On the other hand, the dyadic relations between child and mother showed neither the actor’s effect nor the partner’s effect on their well-being. The study highlights the vital role of fathers and adolescents in their own well-being.
Keywords: A Dyadic Analysis; Parent-Child Relationship Quality; Family Well-Being, Actor–Partner Interdependence Model
Psychological Thought, 2020, Vol. 13(1), 221-239, https://doi.org/10.37708/psyct.v13i1.424
Received: 2019-10-19. Accepted: 2020-02-07. Published (VoR): 2020-04-30.
Handling Editor: Natasha Angelova, South-West University "Neofit Rilski", Blagoevgrad, Bulgaria
*Corresponding author at: Faculty of Psychology, Universitas Tarumanagara, Jakarta, Indonesia.
Email: yohanesb@fpsi.untar.ac.id
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The city's well-being is one of the measured components in seeing the quality of life in the city. Various surveys related to the measurement of happiness index have been done in all cities in Indonesia by the Central Statistics Agency (BPS, 2014). Data findings since 2014 (BPS, 2014) show that the urban happiness index is higher than the rural population happiness index (Indonesians 'quite happy', 2017). On a scale of 0-100, the general index of happiness of Indonesian society is at 70.69. This index means that, in general, the people of Indonesia are quite happy. According to the survey, family harmony was the happiest factor among Indonesian people, while education and skills were the lowest. A study showed that Indonesian youth was among the world's happiest, trailed by Nigeria and India (Indonesian Youth, 2017). Jakarta is the 4th happy city based on BPS analysis with an index of 69.21 (A happy city, 2015). The specific findings related to the happiness index in Jakarta is that the highest happiness index is in the community with higher education level: masters and doctoral degree, that is equal to 79.78. This happiness index is in contrast to individuals who are not or have not gone to school with a happiness index of 63.99. Findings from the happiness index in Jakarta also showed that those who are not married showed the lowest index of 67.76.
According to Carr & Springer (2010), marriage is one of the protective factors for the physical and emotional well-being of the individual. However, previous research showed that the effect of family on emotional and physical well-being depends on the condition of each family. Problematic marriage significantly depletes the individual emotional aspects of the family while good-quality marriages provide good psychological and physical benefits, especially to women (Proulx et al., 2007) and the elderly (Umberson et al., 2006).
Talking about well-being in the marriage certainly not only talks about the well-being measured in husband and wife but also the child. Within a marriage, families of all types can nurture children well, including families with the diversity of caregiving structures, cultural beliefs, socio-economic levels, language used in the home, and country of origin.
The relationship between parent and child concerning child outcomes has most often been analyzed in terms of parenting strategies ' behavioral dimensions. The parenting aspects most studied, as outlined by O'Connor (2002), include: (a) warmth /support/responsiveness; (b) dispute or refusal; (c) supervision level and control techniques of punishment; and (d) autonomy promotion. The family setting is a crucial determinant of lifelong subjective well-being, including the years of childhood and adolescence (Diener & Diener McGavran, 2008). For example, a cross-sectional study of 587 American middle school students found that high life satisfaction in early adolescence was related much more to supportive relationships with parents than to friends (Ma & Huebner 2008).
A study of researches of many youth samples from different cultures showed that the parenting behaviors associated with the youths’ high well-being are logical with an authoritative parenting style. On the other hand, there is a tendency of parental control with punishment and conflict between parent and child to be followed by low well-being. These studies, however, were conducted in cross-sectional and unidirectional (Suldo, 2009). The strong link between youth well-being and relationships betwixt parent and child is high crosswise cultures. Findings of the study by Schwarz et al. (2012) concluded that parental warmth and acceptance are completely independent of the cultural values concerned for early adolescents. Longitudinal studies indicated that their family experiences could form the well-being of children. This bi-directionality is demonstrated by research involving a study of 819 middle and high school students who measured their life satisfaction and the authoritative parenting rates of parents at two-time points separated by one year (Saha et al. 2010). The findings included that the following year, higher youth life satisfaction was associated with higher frequent practices of authoritative parenting.
A family-related analysis of a child’s hope found that the increased child’s hope was linked to higher levels of perceived attachment to their parents in a group of 489 children ages 9–14, r = .51 to r = .54 (Padilla-Walker, et al. 2011). From this study, the strong association between a child’s hope and perceived attachment between the child and the mother was weaker than the association between the child`s hope with their perceived attachment with the father.
Research concerning relationships within a family is challenging for researchers due to its various approaches. A challenge in studying family lies on whether the unit analysis is an individual member of the family, a dyad, or a group. Family systems theory stresses the interconnected relationship between father, mother, and child. Not exclusively does each add to the complex interactions building up the system relationships, however inside the family are settled the related subsystems of father-child, mother-child, and father-mother dyads (Holmes & Huston, 2010).
Shearer et al. (2005) cited Steinberg's presidential address, which called for research on the psychological processes of teenagers in family relations. Surviving studies demonstrate that the parent-youngster relationship may change amid the adolescent years. Even though the well-known generalization of immaturity as a period of the inescapable and widespread tempest and stress is, to a great extent, unwarranted (Buchanan et al., 1998), impermanent bothers in parent-youngster connections do happen (Steinberg & Silk, 2002). The recent literature gives some depiction of parents' convictions about and expectations for pre-adulthood. Steady with standard social generalizations of youthful tempest and stress, parents report that they believe that young people are prone to participate in more elevated amounts of insubordination, issue practices, and exemplary pre-adult practices. For example, be materialistic and tuning in to music and to bring down levels of prosocial characteristics (Buchanan & Holmbeck, 1998) than primary school-age kids. Besides, as per Buchanan (2003), mothers' generalized convictions about young people (i.e., pessimistic generalizations about the formative time frame) anticipate their desires for their own kids' attributes amid adolescence.
Ryff et al. (1994) found a substantial relationship between parents' perceptions of how their youngsters had "turned out" and their well-being with the end goal that parents who revealed more positive assessments of their kids had elevated psychological well-being. View of progress additionally may impact daily interactions within the family situation. As per parents' thoughts regarding their youngsters' advancement, shape hopes about how kids will carry on.
Some study findings reveal a consistent trend that time went through with parents tends to diminish amid puberty (Larson et al., 1996). Second, passionate closeness with parents likewise tends to diminish. Third, clash amongst parents and adolescence appears to increment amid early pre-adulthood and after that declines by late pre-adulthood (Paikoff & Brooks-Gunn, 1991). However, Arnett (1999) stated that the parents saw the conflict elevation between adolescence and them as a stressful developmental period faced by adolescence. Shearer et al. (2005) found that relationships within the family were studied to find a comparison between the mother-father-adolescence relationship. Differences are always found when explaining what positive relationship quality and negative relationship quality among parents-adolescence relationships are.
Adolescence is the time when they spend more time with their peers. This period has an impact on research emphasis on adolescents and their peers compared to the quality of the relationship between them and their parents (Harris, 1998). Van Wel et al. (2000) stated that parent-child relations were essential factors in adolescents’ well-being. In a more detailed study, Biller & Lopez Kimptom (1997) found the influence of affection quality of parent-child relationship toward child well-being, which went into adulthood.
O’Brien & Shemilt (2003) reported increasing men’s participation in their children’s lives. Research suggests that the companionship of a father in his relationship with his child is still in the area of playing together as well as outing together. Even though mothers are by large included for the most part in providing care and arrangement of passionate security, fathers are mainly engaged with play and exploratory exercises (Hewlett, 1992). Expanding on Schaffer & Emerson's (1964) finding that fathers can and do move toward becoming bonding figures for their newborn children, exact research has frequently demonstrated that men are very much prepared to go about as caregivers.
Relationship quality and well-being
The essence of a prosperous life is, of course, not only based on the assessment of individual life characteristics but also includes a division of life that has a function or a public and private task (Keyes, 1998). Mead (1934) explained that the individual self is both individual and public processes. Many individual psychological concepts involve an assessment of two things affecting the individual: intrinsic and extrinsic. For example, the concept of self-esteem or self-concept is an aspect of personality characterized by an assessment and attention to information within and outside of self (Keyes, 1998). Approaches to happiness and wellbeing in psychology focus more on the internal aspects of the individual. Keyes (1998), therefore, sees the urgency of measuring the quality of social welfare (public) and not just focusing on the private aspects (Campbel, 1981; Diener, 1984; Ryff, 1989; Ryff & Keyes, 1995). Based on this thinking, this research bases the concept of family well-being measurement on the concept of well-being encompassing the welfare of intrinsic (private) values such as emotional well-being and psychological well-being as well as a public appraisal of social well-being. Operationally, in this research, the family’s well-being is families whose high emotional well-being, psychological well-being, and social well-being. The family's well-being as the output of psychological processes within the family is based on the analysis of the dyadic quality of relationships among the family members. The emotional atmosphere in each family member: father, mother, and child determine the quality of family harmony. Excellent quality of the dyadic relationship between father and his adolescent child as well as mother and her adolescent child, especially in the quality of conflict resolution and acceptance, may increase their emotional well-being, psychological well-being, and social well-being.
Table 1
Descriptive Demographics of the Participants
Characteristics |
M |
SD |
(n or %) |
Age Child |
19.07 |
3.21 |
230 |
Father |
51.40 |
6.43 |
230 |
Mother |
47.47 |
6.09 |
230 |
Father’s Education High school Some College |
|
|
47.5% 53 % |
Mother’s Education Elementary Junior High school Senior High School Some College Undergraduate Master |
|
|
1.7% 5.6% 59.5% 7.8% 22.4% 3% |
Child’s Education Junior High school High school Some College Undergraduate Master |
|
|
59% 41% 3.4% 42.7% .4% |
Father’s job Civil servants Private employee Profesional Entrepreneur House husband Pension Clergy Labor |
|
|
20.7% 37.8% 3.7% 28% 1.2% 3.7% 2.4% 2.4% |
Mother’s job Civil servants Private employee Entrepreneur House mother Pension Clergy |
|
|
6% 13.8% 19% 50.9% 2.6% 2.2% |
Child’s gender Male Female |
|
|
32.3% 67.7% |
Table 2
The Variables Descriptive Statistics Based on the Roles in the Family
Variable |
Role |
M |
SD |
n |
Relationship Quality |
Child |
3.18 |
0.50 |
230 |
|
Mother |
3.21 |
2.09 |
230 |
|
Father |
3.57 |
0.34 |
230 |
Emotional Well-Being |
Child |
4.76 |
0.86 |
230 |
|
Mother |
4.81 |
0.87 |
230 |
|
Father |
5.08 |
0.87 |
230 |
Psychological Well-Being |
Child |
4.71 |
0.81 |
230 |
|
Mother |
4.85 |
0.81 |
230 |
|
Father |
5.00 |
0.84 |
230 |
Social Well-Being |
Child |
3.94 |
0.98 |
230 |
|
Mother |
3.92 |
0.96 |
230 |
|
Father |
4.07 |
1.09 |
230 |
Dyadic |
df |
p |
Dyadic conclusion |
Mother-child Emotional well-Being Psychological well-being Social well-being |
2.31 6 6 |
.889 <.001 <.001
|
Indistinguishable Distinguishable Distinguishable |
Father-child Emotional well-Being Psychological well-being Social well-being |
6 6 6 |
<.001 <.001 <.001 |
Distinguishable Distinguishable Distinguishable |
Table 4
The APIM testing using Structural Equation Modelling (Child-Mother Dyad)
Role |
Model |
Effect |
Estimate |
β (o) |
β (s) |
p |
Children |
Relationship quality -emotional well-being |
(Actor) |
.23 |
.06 |
.14 |
.088 |
|
|
(Partner) |
.02 |
.01 |
.01 |
.863 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Mother |
|
(Actor) |
.29 |
.17 |
.16 |
.042 |
|
|
(Partner) |
.09 |
.05 |
.05 |
.518 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Children |
Relationship quality-psychological well-being |
(Actor) |
.23 |
.06 |
.14 |
.077 |
|
|
(Partner) |
.04 |
.03 |
.07 |
.743 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Mother |
|
(Actor) |
.27 |
.18 |
.18 |
.024 |
|
|
(Partner) |
.05 |
.03 |
.03 |
.701 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Children |
Relationship quality-social well-being |
(Actor) |
.15 |
.03 |
.08 |
.321 |
|
|
(Partner) |
-.27 |
-.18 |
-.13 |
.095 |
Mother |
|
(Actor) |
.23 |
.12 |
.11 |
.141 |
|
|
(Partner) |
-.12 |
-.06 |
-.07 |
.409 |
Table 5
The APIM Testing Using Structural Equation Modelling (Child-Father Dyad)
Role |
Model |
Effect |
Estimate |
β (o) |
β (s) |
p |
Children |
Relationship quality -emotional well-being |
(Actor) |
.50 |
.24 |
.27 |
<.001 |
|
|
(Partner) |
-.00 |
-.00 |
-.00 |
.974 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Father |
|
(Actor) |
.77 |
.13 |
.30 |
<.001 |
|
|
(Partner) |
-.01 |
-.00 |
-.00 |
.945 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Children |
Relationship quality-psychological well-being |
(Actor) |
.35 |
.17 |
.20 |
.002 |
|
|
(Partner) |
.10 |
.05 |
.04 |
.743 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Father |
|
(Actor) |
.91 |
.18 |
.37 |
<.001 |
|
|
(Partner) |
-.16 |
-.08 |
-.09 |
.149 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Children |
Relationship quality-social well-being |
(Actor) |
.30 |
.12 |
.18 |
.023 |
|
|
(Partner) |
.27 |
.11 |
.09 |
.149 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Father |
|
(Actor) |
.69 |
.09 |
.22 |
<.001 |
|
|
(Partner) |
.02 |
.01 |
.01 |
.911 |
The result shows that, from the children’s side, there are no partner's effects as well as the actor’s effects on the relationship between parent-child relationships and all forms of well-being in the mother-child dyad. On the other hand, mothers experience the actor’s effect on their emotional well-being and psychological well-being, but not the partner’s effect.
Within the father-child dyad, both of the fathers and the children report the actor’s effects. This finding shows the different actor’s effects between mother-child dyads and father-child dyads. There is no partner’s effect detected within father-child dyads.
Erel & Burman’s (1995) study (as cited in Li et al., 2018) explained the family role as the basis of the social environment for individual growth, during marital relationships as the family relations basis. In the context of family development, an enduring bond between caregivers and children reflected in the parent-child relationship (Cox & Paley, 2003).
Mother-child dyadic
The result of this study showed that within the mother-child dyadic, the partner effect does not influence the well-being of the actor. This indicates that the relationship between the mother and child is indistinguishable. When the mother perceives a good quality relationship with her child, this does not affect the child’s well-being in all forms. Only the child’s perception of good relationship quality with his/her mother affect his/her own well-being. On the other hand, the mother’s well-being is also influenced by her relationship quality perception with her child, not by her child’s relationship quality perception with her.
Jouriles et all (1987) (as cited in Mark & Pike, 2017) stated that marital disputes which were externalized might be reproduced within the mother-child dyad, which later might affect the well-being of the mother and the child. Pappa (2013) extended the idea that the mother, whose low relationship quality with her couple tended to have a problem in her parenting practices, relationship with her child, and child’s well-being. This may be a potential explanation of why the dyadic relationship between the mother and child is indistinguishable in this study.
Collins & Russel (1991) explained that mothers typically had got higher levels of involvement with their children than fathers had. This condition opened the possibility of being involved in conflictual relations. A study by Laursen (1995) indicated that conflict between adolescence and their mother occurred more frequently than conflict with peers, fathers, siblings, and other older adults. This may be the reason why the children in the study do not experience the association between their perception of relationship quality with their mothers and their well-being.
In this study, female children dominate with 70 % of all samples. This characteristic may influence the result, as Hill & Holmbeck (1987) explained that disagreements concerning house-rule were more frequent between mothers and their postmenarcheal girls. This frequent conflict between the female adolescent and her mother may trigger the daughters to neglect the relationship quality with their mother temporarily.
Collins & Laursen (2004) (as cited in Branje, 2008) found that the youngster’s tendencies to gain autonomy had decreased the intimacy in the relationship with the parents. This transition period, mixed with increasing house-rule conflict between the mother and her child, may lead the feeling of “disregard” toward each other. This situation may be the explanation of why the partner effect does not affect the well-being of the mother and the child.
A unique result of this study is that within a dyadic mother-child relationship, no actor’s effect and partner effect are found on each well-being. It may suggest that the existence and role of the mother, as well as the child’s role in the family, are not considered important by both the mother and the child. This condition, however, is balanced by the father's relationship quality perception with his child, which influences his own well-being, even though the child’s relationship quality itself does not affect his/her own well-being. These findings may suggest the importance of fatherhood during puberty or menarcheal to balance the absence of the mother’s quality relationship effect toward a child in the family. Due to rarities in the dyadic study of relationship quality and family members' well-being, the opportunity to discover possible output is still big open. Constructing the same variables in a different social system like patriarchy and matriarchy is probably will give more explanation regarding the actor and partner effect within the dyadic analysis in the family.
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Yohanes Budiarto is a Doctoral Candidate at Faculty of Psychology, Universitas Gadjah Mada, Indonesia. He has published research papers in the area of emotions, cognition in religiosity, trust, political party, and well-being. Currently works at Universitas Tarumanagara as an assistant professor
Fransisca Iriani Roesmala Dewi has a Doctoral degree in Psychology and a degree in Sociology. She is currently a Research Manager and senior researcher at Universitas Tarumanagara.
Rahmah Hastuti has a Master in Psychology Profession. She is keen on researching in the area of adolescents and educational psychology. Currently, she is working her research project on adolescents’ heroism supported by Higher Education Research Grants from the Ministry of Technology Research and Higher Education Republic of Indonesia.
Yohanes Budiarto
Email: yohanesb@fpsi.untar.ac.id